6 Tips for the first swimming lessons without you!

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As you know we are huge fans of swimming and how important it is for children – not only is it something that I feel is a vitally important life skill (you know, with two thirds of the planet being covered in water and all) but it’s a brilliant way to help keep kids fit and stop the increasing obesity problems amongst children.

We started our swimming lessons very early (Edith at just 2 weeks old) but that is very parent led, so when we came to moving on to swimming solo with Reuben we felt that it was quite a big transition for him, and although he loved the water and adored getting into the pool, he still had the same worries of any child – new teacher, new classmates, new environment etc. We thought long and hard about how to make the transition from baby swimming to those first swimming lessons for children without a parent in the pool. Here are a few tips that we feel really helped him settle in and gave us the ability to help him be a bit more independent.

For them:

1.Cool stuff of their choosing

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Roo chose his own shorts and he always seems delighted to put them on!

I know you might think it sounds very materialistic, but allowing your child to choose their own funky swim shorts/swim suit and towel can be really helpful. Reuben has some really funky avengers shorts that he loves (despite the fact that I usually refuse character clothing as I really don’t like it) but he was so excited to wear his stuff that he seemed less focused on his nerves.

2. Don’t make too big a fuss

Yes, it’s great to talk about how fun their new swim class is going to be and how it’s a sign that they are a big girl/boy now, but don’t go overboard and don’t force the subject. If they are really nervous and have never been swimming before, talk to the teacher and ask if you can maybe come and watch at pool side.

3. Post swim treats

I know this might not be everyone’s cup of tea but it’s certainly ours! We made a bit of a routine of enjoying a little post-swim treat. Sometimes it would be something as sweet and simple as the excitement of putting pennies into the vending machine and getting a little (overpriced) bar of chocolate, other times it was a stop off at the ice cream parlour or (mainly so I didn’t have to cook a  dinner) fish and chips to take home to daddy. The boys loved it and it often made life easier for me with the post-school class.

For you:

4. A decent bag.

Great tips for helping your little one adjust to first swimming classes via Toby & Roo :: daily inspiration for stylish parents and their kids.

Great tips for helping your little one adjust to first swimming classes via Toby & Roo :: daily inspiration for stylish parents and their kids.

Roo loves being in charge of his bag when he goes swimming, the sense of responsibility makes him feel so grown up.

I suppose this could count as something for both of you. For one, we used an old gym bag of mine for swimming when we were all swimming together but once Roo started his own classes, he got his own bag that was his responsibility to look after. We used a PaddlePak from Trunki and I will never be able to recommend it highly enough. Every morning before I knew we had swimming I’d pack it, roll the top up (which stops bits falling out completely) and I’d put £1-2 in the tail zipper (which is also ideal for older kids who have mobiles or jewellery). He would then be in charge of his bag once we arrived at swimming – something he relished as it gave him a sense of growth.

PaddlePak swim bags come in a variety of styles but each retains its shape which is large enough for everything, zipper pocket in the “tail” and even that roll up top so you know the whole swim kit won’t fall out in the car!

5. Change for a drink or a drink with you

You know the poolside gets SO hot so it’s a really good idea to take some change with you just in case you want a drink while watching. In addition to that, Roo always comes out of the pool thirsty, so I think having a drink for him keeps the tires temper tantrums at bay and makes things run more smoothly.

6. Communicate with the teacher

If you have a teacher that you can’t talk to or who doesn’t listen then it’s time to move class. We’ve been so lucky with our teachers, they have always been great but don’t be afraid to tell them if there is an aspect of class or swimming your child inst a fan of.

That’s it! My top tips for first swimming classes for children without a parent in the pool!

H x


  1. Avatar March 19, 2016 / 9:19 am

    great tips I know one thing that really encouraged my girls was letting them choose their own goggles something so simple but it made them so excited! x

    • Harriet March 21, 2016 / 10:14 am

      That’s fab Amy! See it does work 🙂 H x

  2. Avatar March 16, 2016 / 6:14 pm

    Sadly we don’t get around to swimming enough. My little girl did aquababes and we bave been swimming since but nothing religously. Love the swim bag though. Looks cute and well made

    • Harriet March 16, 2016 / 8:30 pm

      Thanks Viki, thats still better than nothing though! I can’t recommend the bag enough 🙂 H x

  3. Avatar March 15, 2016 / 7:13 pm

    There are some great tips here. I want to take the girls swimming a lot more now. x

    • Harriet March 16, 2016 / 3:03 pm

      Thanks Beth, I would highly recommend it – so much fun 🙂 H x

  4. Avatar March 15, 2016 / 3:19 pm

    It is almost time for my youngest to go in the pool without me. I am looking forward to it and dreading it at the same time

    • Harriet March 15, 2016 / 3:42 pm

      It will be fine Kara! H x

  5. Avatar March 15, 2016 / 3:16 pm

    I remember when I was a kid, my dad would always let my brother and I choose something from the vending machine after we’d been swimming. Post-swim treats, rock! 🙂

    I’ve heard such good things about the paddle pak bags – I think I might get one for my daughter, now that we’re going swimming more regularly.

    • Harriet March 15, 2016 / 8:55 pm

      Oh do Jenna, they are FAB! Yes, it is one of my fondest memories of swimming, I used to love the treat, it made going so much more fun haha! H x

  6. Avatar March 15, 2016 / 12:31 pm

    post swim treats are a must for sure – especially if you’ve got more than one to get changed

  7. Avatar March 15, 2016 / 12:05 pm

    Great tips. My daughter has been on a list of lessons for a year and I’m thinking of looking elsewhere as I want to get her started as soon as we can. I enjoyed the post. Lovely photos too! Angela from Daysinbed

    • Harriet March 15, 2016 / 12:40 pm

      Thanks Angela – oh it’s so hard when kids are stuck on waiting lists, you feel like it’s never ending! H x

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